Top o’ the Mornin’ to Ya!
At my son’s soccer tournament today, I witnessed something powerful that applies directly to our lives as Christian leaders. During the game, a third-grade player on the opposing team completely tripped one of our kids, who went down hard. What happened next struck me deeply – the boy who committed the unintentional foul immediately raised his hand and said, “That was me. That’s mine.”
He owned his mistake completely – no excuses, no deflection, just pure accountability.
What?
This young soccer player demonstrated something many grown men struggle with – taking full ownership of his error. Without hesitation, he raised his hand and claimed responsibility for the penalty.
As I watched this scene unfold, I couldn’t help but reflect on my own journey. Years ago, I didn’t “raise my hand” soon enough regarding my struggles with sex addiction, and it cost me dearly. Only after significant damage did I finally own my mistakes and begin the recovery process.
Why?
Why does this matter so much? Because as Kingdom Family Leaders, our willingness to take ownership directly reflects our character and shapes the culture of our homes, businesses, and communities.
When we deflect blame, make excuses, or hide our errors – whether it’s cheating on taxes, paying people under the table, taking shortcuts, or any other compromise – we’re not walking in alignment with Kingdom principles.
Lesson
The lesson is beautifully simple yet profoundly challenging: God’s way is ownership and accountability. Raising your hand and saying “That’s mine. I made that mistake. I own it” creates the foundation for authentic leadership, genuine relationships, and spiritual growth.
This applies across every domain of life – from business decisions to family relationships to personal integrity. True leadership isn’t about appearing perfect; it’s about modeling humility, accountability, and a commitment to growth.
Apply
Where do you need to raise your hand today? Is there an error in judgment, a shortcut taken, a responsibility avoided, or a sin concealed that requires your ownership?
Take a moment to reflect on areas where you might be avoiding accountability. Then, make the courageous choice to “raise your hand” – whether that means having a difficult conversation, making restitution, or simply acknowledging your mistake to those affected.
There’s tremendous freedom and power in owning your mistakes. It’s not just what great leaders do – it’s what God calls us to do.
You be blessed!
Owning Your Mistakes: The Power of Raising Your Hand
